actually, im kinda immune to all these. but then again. this time round it involves my 2 dearest friend. no matter what there is to argue, who is wrong or who is right, no matter what grudges u've had against anyone, there is absolutely no reason y u should upset a friend, especially on her birthday. (that's if u treated her as a friend). well i shall not go into details, but yes you, huishan, i think u should talk to yunting about yr unhappiness right on that day itself instead of accumulating all yr anger or what-so-ever n to vent them all out on yr blog without considering yunting's feelings.

as for our past grudges (like what u've said - since sec2), i've left that all behind. perhaps not all, i admit. but for yunting, i did try my best to put all of that aside so as to celebrate her 18th bd with her, happily and harmoniously. apparently that wasnt achieved, for she had a really bad time both at the chalet, at home, and now on the net.

i dun want to see friendships tearing apart again. not even on u, with my 2 best friends. but friendships are built on trust. and tore apart with the breaching of trust. before tearing them up fully, i suggest u 3 should sit down together and sort things out rationally.

i've finally seen the light that blog wars are stupid. so what i've said here are all based on MY OWN OPINION. u do not have to agree with me, but i can say, im being my MOST RATIONAL SELF to write this already.